I read the Steve Harvey book How To Think Like A Man and Act Like a Lady several years ago. Long before the movie came out. Have yet to see the movie. Will probably see the movie just because I like Turtle from Entourage haha (aka Jerry Ferarra). One of the takeaway points that Steve makes that is great is his explanation for the reason men cheat. The reason men cheat on their wives is not because men are dogs but because there are many women out there that are very willing and able to sleep with a married man. One of the reason is that married men have a lot of appeal. Women often think that a man who is married must be very desirable if a women has agreed to commit their life to them. They are “pre screened”if you will. Steve also emphasizes that a woman must how “low moral character” to sleep with a married man. I think a good analogy to the married man versus a single man is a man who is employed versus unemployed. An employed man is seen as being someone who had to go through an extensive screening process to get the job. An unemployed man is seeking a job but he has not found a company that whats to commit to him.